For example, say f(x),g(x) are functions that are equal to each other in measurable space E, except on a subset N. Say a given measure on ``disagreeable'' space N is equal to zero. Now N is like Las Vegas and we are given license to forget about what happens in this space N and assert that f(x)=g(x) a.e where a.e stands for almost everwhere. To be more precise (just to prevent extra point from being leaked out of your exam paper!), we need to state f(x)=g(x) a.e[μ]. That is we need to specify which measure.
Mathematically,where x∈N. The above criteria specifies the points of N. Here f ~ g and it is not too difficult to prove that this is an equivalence relation.
Reflexive property: Clearly f ~ f. The disagreeable set N in this case is a null set and measure of null set is 0. f=f on the whole set. Symmetric: Clearly f ~ g also means that set of disagreeable space remains same when we switch f to the right. Reflexive: Say f ~ g and let N1 be the disagreeable set. Say g ~ h and let N2 be the disagreeable set, then N1∪N2 where f,g,h are not equal to each other. Hence f ~ h.
Note all the above statements were made based on a property that f=g. Generally, we don't have to be specific about a property. Above assertions and proofs hold in a more abstract sense, that is for any property P.